Tell me about yourself?I’m a constantly evolving individual, who just wants to become the person I’m supposed to be. I am a graduate student. I love education. I love my family more.
I also love to cut loose and have fun. I am the girl who you see having a dance party by herself simply because it’s 3:11 pm on Monday. I want so much to just have a good time, and help others to do the same!
Where were you born?I was born in Mt. Pleasant, Charleston, South Carolina. My parents were military, and they decided the smart thing to do would be to take me (the daughter of a marine and an Air Force sergeant) to a civilian hospital. Quick fun story that came of that – they never gave my family my birth certificate. So I was trying to get ready for college, and I realized I didn’t have one. It took 3 years, and a call from my father’s CO in Washington, DC for me to get the little slip of paper that certifies that I do, in fact have a belly button.
Do you have any brothers or sisters? How old are they? Are you close to them? I am the oldest of five children. The next in line is my brother David. He’s 19. He was born deaf, and after many surgeries, has partial hearing. He’s amazing, and can play a mean guitar when he wishes. Then there is Michael. He just turned 17. I will forever remember him as the chubby cheeked little squirt who would giggle as he threw food at you. Then Rebekah, who just turned 14. She’s growing up so fast! She’s almost in high school. (I feel so old!) And then, there is my unabashed favorite. She’s all of our favorites, so it’s all good. Anna is 11 now. She is the most beautiful little tomboy you will ever meet! She’s amazing.
I am extremely close to my siblings. With the age difference between Anna and I (12 years) it’s almost like a mother daughter relationship there. I guess I would say I have that with all of my siblings, but I’m the closest with Anna.
Did you moove around a lot as a kid/now?As a child, I moved around a lot before I was 11. When I was 11 we moved back to the family farm my family has lived on for 7 generations. It was the middle of November in my 6th grade year. I remember hating my parents for making me move at that awful time. I had just started to understand middle school, then I pack up and go to one in which no one knows who I am, or cares. However, it was possibly the best thing that could have happened. If I hadn’t gotten out of the school system I was in, I doubt I would have graduated high school. It was a rough school, and I didn’t know it.
Are your parents divorced?My parents actually just finalized their divorce. I was 21 years old when they separated. I no longer speak to my mother. In my eyes, she left the family when I was 11. She would come back to cause havoc every now and again, but she was essentially no longer part of the family. My father is a single dad, and is doing a bang up job of it though!
Do you want to get married and have kids one day?No. I can’t see myself ever marrying, due to the fact that I don’t think it’s right for the government to be able to intervene in the way two people who love each other live. Would I swear a vow to never leave of forsake someone, to death do us part? Yes. Would I go to the courthouse and sign a paper that says we are legally bound to each other? No.
As for children, I would love to foster children. I don’t want to have my own, and I don’t want to adopt, but I would love to help the children out as long as I could. Foster parents get a bad rap because of the few bad ones. I want to change that, and the only way to do that is to become a foster parent myself!
How did you come to where you are at right now?Well, I got on a big silver bird, that rushed me speedily across ocean and land, while giving me peanuts to calm my nerves. :-) I’m in Yeosu, South Korea. I’m an English teacher at a private school. After graduation, like so many people, I couldn’t find a job. I thought I had one, but then the teacher cuts happened, and my little elementary education butt was the first on the list to be chopped.
So, I put my resume on Monster, and got a call from a strange number one Sunday night. It was a recruiter from South Korea, asking me if I wanted a job. We talked for a while, and I jumped through some legal hoops, got a passport and flew to Korea. It was wonderful.
I teach 5 hours a day now, and I am losing all of my free time. I am traveling all over Korea, and some parts of Asia. I’m actually going to Bali for winter break, so that’s going to be amazing! I love it here, even though I’m homesick right now, with the holidays coming up.
What do you want to do with your life?Well, my dream is to own my own school. I want to have a school that will serve as a massive foster home. I want to employ teachers, social workers, and psychologists that will help my school to become a good college prep school for people who are in foster care. So many times educational life is disrupted by the system. I want to create a place where that doesn’t happen.
I also believe that those in the system are underrepresented in our colleges and universities. By creating a place where the education is part of the home life, I can make a difference in that number, and hopefully better impact the system down the road. If we create leaders out of the disadvantaged, then the disadvantaged will create a world where they are no longer disadvantaged.
Are you dating someone right now?No, I’m not. I’m enjoying being single. Otherwise, it would be hard to have as many adventures as I do.
How do you relieve stress?I usually relieve stress by writing. I enjoy writing about life and the thoughts in my head. Like Dumbledore, I often have too many thoughts in my head to keep them all straight. So, my paper is my pensive. I am writing a novel at this point in my life as well, so that is quickly becoming a stress relief.
I also have random dance parties. I love to dance, and so moving to a beat is a good way to get some relief from everyday life.
What irritates you in other people?I get irritated the most when people won’t tell you something straight. I much more prefer the person who will look at you and say “I don’t like this about you, and this is what I would wish you would do instead,” than the person who will avoid you because they don’t like that about you. I am a big promoter of honesty when it comes to what you like and don’t like about a person. I also realize it’s one of the hardest things to do, so I try not to get too irritated at people about it.
What kind of things do you like to do?I love to talk and listen. I think it’s my favorite thing to get someone talking about him/herself and to really get to know that person. I much prefer a good conversation to most things.
I also like to climb trees. It’s a good place to hang out and watch the world go by. You begin to realize that a lot of people never look up when they walk, and they miss something very obvious (aka me in the tree!)
What do you want people to know about you?I care. I care deeply, and I care fully. I really want people to understand that I care, no matter what.
If you could give one piece of advice to the world, what would it be?If today was your last day, and tomorrow was too late, would it be enough? No? Then make it enough. Take the plunge, ask the girl/boy out, and just live!
If there was one thing in the world that you could change, what would it be?The amount of hate that people have for each other is so sad. I would change that if I could change anything.